Christian Ethics and Pastoral Counseling
Listening and Counseling
This article shows that being a biblical listener is a prerequisite for being an effective counsellor. It examines several passages from Proverbs from the perspective of being a loving counsellor who listens.
What Motivates the Human Heart? Pastoral Advice from David Powlison's "X-Ray Questions"
Christian Ethics and Pastoral Counseling
Compassion in a Broken World: The Powerful Support of God’s Spirit in Weakness
“Reflections on a Long Term Pastorate”
Counselling and the Heart of Christ
The parables of Luke 15 reveal the heart of Christ. This article calls for counselling to reflect such a heart by moving toward the messed up people in this life in order to demonstrate the love of Christ.
Life as a Shepherd Leader
What should be the priorities of a pastor? This article answers by considering the role of shepherds. It discusses how the kings of Israel often failed to serve as shepherds, but how the Lord Jesus was the perfect shepherd of his sheep. The article issues a call to imitate the Chief Shepherd.
Afflictions in the Life of Grace
Prayer Is a Great Place to Begin Biblical Counselling
What do your prayer requests look like? How do they match up with the focus of Scripture's prayers? This article explains how right praying and prayer requests are good avenues to pursue in order to care well for one another.
Gospel-centered Pastoral Counselling
Christian Ethics and Pastoral Counselling
Counselling
What Distinguishes Biblical Counseling From Other Methods?
This article outlines ways in which biblical counseling is different from other types of counseling.
The Ministry and Counselling
The Therapy of the Word
Avoiding a Penchant for Judgment
Counsellors (f)or Christmas?
Whom Are You Going to Call?
Maintaining a Relationship of Trust A Christian perspective on pastoral care and trust
Affirmations & Denials: A Proposed Definition of Biblical Counseling
Motives
What If Counselees Are Hesitant to Talk?
Sin and Misery…Connecting the Dots
One of the ways of helping people deal with their pain is to show them the connecting dots between sin and misery. This article explains that Christian counselling should aim at helping people see the link between sin and the results of sin.
God Is Working So That You Will Ooze Grace
How are you dealing with suffering? This article, as an open letter, encourages you to cling to the promises of the Lord, as caught in passages such as Romans 8:28-29 and 2 Corinthians 1:2-5.
To Solve a Problem Scripturally
Biblical counselling seeks to solve problems biblically. Solving problems biblically requires that problems be defined biblically. This article explains what this means.
Pastors, Stop Texting Your Church Members
When is texting church members a good idea and when should you avoid texting? This article gives three guidelines to follow.
The Word of God in Pastoral Care
Dealing with Problem People
How do you deal with problem people in the church? 1 Thessalonians 5:14 identifies three groups of problem people: unruly, fainthearted, and weak. This article explains how do you deal with such church members.
Counseling with Jesus as the Hero
The goal in Christian counselling is to lead sinners and sufferers to exchange their false stories for the one true Story that Christ invites us to join. How do you achieve this in counselling? Stress the gospel and its implications, and counsel within the church.
Justification and Pastoral Ministry
This article considers how the doctrine of justification by faith is important to pastoral ministry. It speaks good news to a variety of people for whom a pastor cares: the guilty, the insecure, the indifferent, and the resentful.
Ten Practical Tips for Helping Hurting People
How do you reach out to hurting Christians? This article outlines ten practical tips you can use to bring comfort to Christians facing suffering or pain in their lives.
Do Real Men Cry?
Counseling and the Word of God
What to Do with That Awkward Silence on Pastoral Visits
This article counsels pastors on how to be comfortable in pastoral visits where there can be silence at times. It suggests learning to be comfortable with such silence, especially with the elderly, as well as making an effort to learn the things they like and enjoy.
Feed My Sheep The Shepherd is the Main Biblical Metaphor for Leaders
When People Can’t Listen
In pastoral counselling how do you deal with people who are not listening? Be patient, present, petitioning.
Eight Ways to Comfort the Suffering
The goal of discipleship in the midst of suffering is to bring comfort in Christ. Knowing that people suffer differently, what are ways to comfort the suffering? This article looks at eight of them.
Four Ways to Love Those with Mental Illnesses
How can the church disciple those with mental illness? Discipleship to the mentally ill should at least embrace these four things.
Counsel One Another with Good News
Gospel-centred counselling is what should characterize the ministry of believers to one another. This article explains that this counselling can only be found in the church because being rooted in Christ makes sense of the past, present, and future.
Fulfilling the Law of Christ through Biblical Counselling
Biblical counselling is part of obeying Christ's law to love one another. This article gives biblical grounds for the call to care for each other and how this is linked to the law of love.
Speak into Suffering
A Definition for Biblical Counseling
This article offers a definition of biblical counselling that shows it is not just in the domain of official counsellors. It can be defined as "a fluid event and process of a Spirit-empowered Christ follower providing face-to-face ministry of the Word to others."
The Wisdom of Shutting Our Mouths
This article explains the place of silence in conversation with another person, in a counselling setting or otherwise.
Ministering to the Suffering
This article offers nine reminders for Christians as we minister to those who are suffering. It brings Scripture to bear on the matter, urging great wisdom in how we speak to the suffering.
Thoughts on Visiting
As a pastor or an elder, how do you do a hospital visit? This article offers some practical ways to conduct such visits.
The Local Church is the Place for Biblical Counselling
Biblical counselling thrives when it is placed in the context of a local church. Why? This article explains that there are five advantages to making the church the place for biblical counselling.
Twelve Ways the Holy Spirit Energizes Discipleship Counseling
Without the work of the Holy Spirit, counselling will fail. Why? The article highlights twelve ways in which the Spirit energizes counselling.
Are You a Bad Listener?
Shepherding
This article argues that there is a form of shepherding that is needed by the church. It is shepherding the people of your congregation by approaching members when you suspect that there is something wrong. The article advises on how to do this.
Take Note of This
Pastors are involved in counselling. How can you make sure that you make progress in your counselling sessions? This article suggests the practice of taking notes.
But Others Have It Worse
I Shall Come Forth as Gold
Practicing the Discipline of Peace
Anxiety and fear can only be overcome through knowing the peace of Christ. How does one know the peace of Christ? This article gives eight disciplines that will help you as a believer experience this peace.
The Sufficiency of Scripture to Diagnose and Cure Souls
This article shows that biblical counselling is rooted in a conviction that Scripture is sufficient to define and cure man's problem. Scripture does this by looking at the meaning of desires of the flesh.
Why Do We Pray?
This article discusses the reason for prayer and what that means for its role in pastoral care and counselling. It reflects on what prayer communicates about your beliefs, what you need to pray for, and how you may pray.
The Local Church Is the Place for Biblical Counselling
The author highlights five advantages to having counselling carried out in the local church, over against the secular model of the office-bound counsellor.
Are You Using That Proof Text Well ... Or Are You Proof-Texting?
When it comes to counselling or ministering to others, a lot of harm can be inflicted when you proof-text instead of using proof texts. The author outlines the difference, and advocates a use of Scripture that is sensitive to someone's life circumstances.
Dealing with Illness
Biblical Theology and Counseling
In this article the author starts by talking about counseling and preaching, and counseling and Jesus Christ. He then shows us that counseling brings to people the union with Christ, the example of Christ, the identity in Christ, the victory in Christ, and the future with Christ.
Don't You Think It Would Be Wise to Counsel with Someone Other Than My Pastor?
Visiting the Sick
Commiserating
As a method of counselling, commiserating does not work. In fact, it gives a wrong picture of God. The article explains what commiserating is.
The Issue and the Relationship
Counselling must be done by identifying issues and how they relate to the relationships of those needing help. This article explains how a counsellor can offer such counselling.
Pastoral Visitation
This article offers a succinct reasoning for pastoral visits, as well as how and when such should be done.
Nouthetic Counseling
Counselling and the Sovereignty of God
Christian counselling can only be done by embracing the truth about God, and true hope in counselling can only be given by embracing the sovereignty of God. This article explains the relationship between counselling and God's sovereignty.
The Biblical Counseling Movement – Introduction
This chapter introduces the history and significance of the biblical counselling movement associated with Jay Adams. Adams crossed swords with the established practice of referring members of the church to psychiatric and psychological experts without trying to take care of “their own.” That is, psychiatry replaced the pastorate’s jurisdiction over personal problems.
What is Spiritual Direction?
In this article comprehensive introduction to the subject of Spiritual Direction is given. The author outlines the purpose, processes and content of Spiritual Direction. She further explores various models for understanding the practice of one person meeting with another for guidance and companionship.
The Biblical Counseling Movement – The Making of a Conservative Protestant Counselor
Chapter 2 continues the examination of the history and significance of the biblical counselling movement associated with Jay Adams. It traces the history of Adams’s development of nouthetic counselling and its leading institutions.
Covenant and Counselling: Some Counseling Implications of a Covenant Theology
The aim of this article is to offer a possible Christian theological approach to counseling. The author first gives an overview of different perspectives on applying the insights of counseling psychology to the practice of Christian counseling and caring. With this as his background, the author sketches an approach to counseling which keeps the concept of covenant at its core.
John 14:26 - The Counseling Ministry of the Holy Spirit
Proverbs 27:5-6 – Open Rebuke and Faithful Wounds
This article focuses on the counsel of Proverbs 27:5-6, and shows how a rebuke and wound brought by a friend is faithful and trustworthy. The author explains how this is beneficial in the sphere of counselling.