"Have you followed the way of Matthew 18?" That question has stopped a number of people in their tracks. Someone approaches a person in authority with concerns about the conduct of someone under their charge and often the first response is: "Did you go and talk with so-and-so? I can't do anything until you've taken the steps of Matthew 18. That's the Christian way, you know." Oh. That usually ends the conversation and the concerned person walks away feeling guilty, frustrated, and inĀtimidated.