This article provides husbands with practical, biblical advice on how to confess their sin with pornography to their wives.

This article is about adultery and apostasy. Adultery and unfaithfulness distort marriage as it was created by God. Just as we can be physically unfaithful in our marriage, so can we be spiritually unfaithful to Christ. The adulterous culture of today grieves God. Let us remain faithful.

This article provides a short, helpful list of questions to ask the husband, and the wife, before the first post-adultery counselling session.

These articles provides husbands with practical, biblical advice on how to show true care for their wives after confessing their sin with pornography.

This article speaks about the benefits of providing counselling within the context of the church when there has been marital unfaithfulness.

What are helpful steps to take in order to rebuild a marriage after adultery? This article outlines four steps to improve the marriage.

What are immediate actions that can be taken in order to end an affair? This article offers five actions, including the value of getting wise counsel, cutting off the relationship immediately, and confessing to your spouse what you have done.

Whom do you help once a couple confides in you about an affair? This article looks at the character of God and how he responds to both the one who was betrayed and the one who committed adultery.

What options are there after an affair has come to light? This article considers the biblical options, stressing the priority of rebuilding as much as possible.

This article considers the typical responses to an affair, both by the betrayed spouse and the betraying spouse. It also points out the typical differences between men and women who are betrayed, or who are unfaithful.

This article identifies the different kinds of affairs that can happen.

This article addresses the dynamic that often develops when an offender (adulterer or otherwise) repents, and forgiveness is promised, but the relationship is not restored because of the motives of the victim’s heart. The roles are reversed, and the victim becomes the offender. The author shows how the gospel provides the way for believers to escape this pattern.

This article identifies the damage that adultery does to marriage, and the hope that husband and wife can have reconciliation through repentance and forgiveness, and working by grace through faith to restore what has been destroyed by sin.

This article addresses the struggle of a repentant adulterer, and the issue of informing his or her spouse about the sin, giving biblical guidance in resolving the question.

This article is part two of a letter addressed to an imaginary person involved in an affair. The article is written to give guidance to those who have to give pastoral direction when dealing with a believer caught in adultery.

This article is part one of a letter addressed to an imaginary person involved in an affair. The article is written to give guidance to those who have to give pastoral direction when dealing with a believer caught in adultery.

This article offers some insights into counselling the betrayed spouse after adultery has been discovered. It focuses especially on the issue of forgiveness, and the conditions under which it is to be given.

Will a happy marriage prevent an affair? A happy marriage will not necessarily prevent you from adultery, and this article explains why. Often, an affair is more about nostalgia than anything else.

This article offers ten areas that counsellors or pastors need to explore with couples dealing with infidelity or adultery, so that healing can take place.

This article warns against the sin of adultery, and provides some ways for Christians to behave so that they are not accused of living an adulterous life by the world, in which adultery has become common.

What is it that made the Ashley Madison adultery website work? This article offers an answer, that the website joined original sin to modern technology. Yet this promotion of casual sexuality is an updating of a very old profession, that of prostitution. And it demonstrates a crisis of worship.